This is to all you girls out there, single or not. You all have had a Chad. You know that one guy that seems to have it all; the looks, hair, sense of humor, personality, security in themselves. All the things we SG's seem to look for in our ideal mates. But let me ask you this. Are you the Ideal Self for your own ideal mate? Have you spent enough time alone to truly know your true self? If you can't say you have or you do then how will you know the one you love loves the real you?
It is so easy to get caught up in the life of the one you are with and lose part of yourself. If you are a fellow SG take this time to really learn who you are. What you enjoy. If you are part of a couple make sure you make some "me" time. Relearn who you - as an individual - are. To quote my favorite SG - The best relationship you can ever have is the one you have with yourself.
